First Date Question For the Guys

Apparently women make a decision whether or not they want to go out on a date with a man within 30 seconds of meeting him.

Pressure cooker time huh?

Well, let's break this down and see if we can make it easier to understand. The very first question a man SHOULD ask a woman is called an "open" question. These are questions that can't be answered by a simple "yes" or "no." It usually requires a well thought out answer that will continue a dialog.

You see, you don't want to be asking a "closed" question because it makes a conversation harder to keep going.

Great questions have certain characteristics in common such as being funny, provocative or positive.

And for Pete's sake... don't make the questions seem like a JOB INTERVIEW! It's boring!

Great questions to ask on a first date are the ones that bring out an interesting dialogue, which will be a great opportunity for you to learn more about her. The most critical part will be your listening skills. Listen carefully so that you can ask those intelligent follow-up questions because:

* It shows you are listening to her
* It makes her feel that you are interested in her
* It will impress her

We can't ignore your body language WHILE you are asking those great open questions... Right? Absolutely NOT! Remember to smile, uncross those arms and legs, and maintain eye contact.

Because, after all a large part of communication is body language. So you want to present a relaxed demeanor that shows her that you can enjoy yourself in any social setting.

I promise you, you will be her knight in shining armor if she feels the guy across the table really is interested in her.

Another tip, make a compliment and follow up with an easy to answer question. The reason being is usually the woman's radar is up at the beginning of the date. Complimenting a woman can mean so many things at different levels and she isn't sure about you yet. If you just compliment her, you run into the risk that she will reject the compliment. And by extension, she is rejecting you. So the way around this is to quickly ask a question without waiting for her response to your compliment.

Let's make up an example: "I really like the blouse you are wearing tonight, what do you like to do on your days off?

And she will tell you her hobbies while accepting your compliment. Think about it this way, if some attractive woman complimented you on your choice of clothes, wouldn't that make you feel good about yourself?

And guess what? Your first date may soon be on a rip roaring success. And to think you were agonizing about your first date question prior to your date.

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